Dick Schwartz, the founder of IFS, often talks about “trailheads”. In this article I explain as clearly as possible what we mean by them.
Read moreGender and sexual identity formation through the lens of Internal Family Systems
This article looks at gender and sexual identity formation through the lens of IFS, and introduces the model of the Star of Self.
Read moreWhat are Self-like Parts in IFS (Internal Family Systems)
Lear what Self-like parts are and how to differentiate them from Self in IFS (Internal Family Systems) therapy.
Read moreLGBTQI* inclusive therapy - Why IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapy is a good model for the LGBTQI* Community
The 3 reasons that make IFS Therapy a good match for the LGBTQI* community
Read moreIFS Meditation to allow the body to self-heal
Listen to this free guided IFS meditation to allow your body to enter into a state of self-healing.
Read moreThe 6 reasons why parts remain in their extreme role in IFS (Internal Family Systems)
Learn the 6 main reasons why parts do not leave their extreme roles according to Dick Schwarts, the founder of IFS (Internal Family Systems) therapy. I will also give you tips on how to get “unstuck”, and a free PDF download.
Read moreThree steps to deal with intrusive thoughts with IFS (Internal Family Systems)
Learn what intrusive thoughts are and 3 steps to deal with them from an IFS (Internal Family Systems) perspective
Read moreWorking with guilt with IFS
Working with guilt with IFS
Learn how to work with guilt using the language and tools of IFS Therapy.
Read moreGendered Burdens - how IFS (Internal Family Systems) sees burdens related to gender
Discover what burdens we carry due to gender norms from an IFS perspective.
Read moreSelf in IFS Therapy - what it is, what are the 8 C's and the 5 P's of Self
Qualities of Self
Compassion, Creativity, Curiosity, Confidence, Courage, Calm, Connectedness, Clarity, Presence, Persistence, Perspective, Playfulness, Patience
Read about the 8 C’s and 5 P’s of Self in IFS Therapy according to Richard Schwartz. Free download of PDF sheet available.
Read moreThe main reasons why "unburdening" an exile might not lead to full healing
Discover why healing an exile in IFS Therapy might not be fully achieved during a session.
Read moreUnblending from parts - one of the hidden gems of IFS Therapy
Discover the key role that blending and unblending have in IFS Therapy
Read moreThe importance of (and some alternatives to) the question "How do you feel toward this part?" in IFS (Internal Family Systems)
Whether you are a therapist or a client, the question “How do you feel towards this part?” is key to the IFS journey. Find out why this question is so important and how you can find alternative ways to ask.
Read more6 psychological reasons why we do not lose weight
Find out about the 6 main psychological reasons why it is so difficult to lose weight. I use the language of IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapy by Dick Schwartz to explain these reasons.
Read moreThe three main reasons why we exile our parts according to Dick Schwartz
Our Exiles need Love
Learn how Dick Schwartz, the founder of IFS Therapy, describes the ways in which we exile the most vulnerable and vital parts of ourselves.
Read moreIFS Meditations for Self and other Video meditations by Richard (Dick) C. Schwartz - my review and collection
A collection of IFS meditations and a review of the meditations included in “Meditations for Self” by Richard C. Schwartz, including the famous path meditation.
Read moreOCD from an IFS perspective
Discover how IFS (Internal Family Systems) sees OCD based on the writings of the founder, Richard C. Schwartz
Read moreUnburdening parts (Exiles and Protectors) in IFS Therapy
Learn what unburdening is in IFS as described by Richard C. Schwartz
Read moreIFS and polyamory - good therapy for those who are not monogamous
Learn what to look for in a psychotherapist when you want to bring your polyamory to your sessions. IFS (Internal Family Systems) could be a good model for you.
Read moreHow to change limiting beliefs - A comparison between IFS and CBT
In this article, I am going to describe how IFS works with clients to change limiting beliefs that no longer serve a purpose in life, and how it is different from CBT.
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