IFS for Anger
Anger is not as well studied and understood as anxiety. While anxiety conditions have names like GAD, OCD, etc. the only references to anger are in extreme cases like antisocial behaviour or oppositional defiant disorder, which probably not many people know about.
Anger issues happen when we do not know how to deal with the anger we feel. Anger, itself, is neither “good” nor “bad”, but it is how we deal with the anger that we feel that makes a difference.
Anger is an emotion that we all experience in life and, unfortunately, is not easy to express. Anger can become chronic and unhealthy, which is when clients start considering the idea of coming to therapy to make sense of it. Typical scenarios are
Getting very irritated at small things
Raising voice in work situations
Losing sleep
Losing trust in people
Hitting (or wanting to hit) parts of one's own body or other objects
Getting easily into arguments that escalate quickly
How Psychotherapy helps with anger issues
The typical steps to treat anger are the following
Step 1 - Identifying the triggers. We spend some time understand what is that makes you angry
Step 2 - We take a close look at your angry reactions to understand why you get so angry. At this point we discover what needs of yours are not met when you get angry, and we also discover whether there has been something traumatic in the past that makes your anger go out of proportion
Step 3 - Depending on the discoveries of Step 2, we proceed either with healing the trauma, or with finding alternative ways to get your needs met that do not rely heavily on anger.
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